Sex addiction is often overlooked because people seldom view it as a problem requiring a cure. Unlike alcoholism or drug abuse, it may not pose immediate physical harm, and we acknowledge that sex is a crucial aspect of a satisfying life.

Nevertheless, we must not underestimate the detrimental impact of sex addiction, not only on the individual but also on those who share their lives. Sex addiction is destructive and can shatter entire worlds if treatment is not sought.

Identifying Signs of Sex Addiction

Similar to any other addict, a person struggling with sex addiction will often find it challenging to focus on anything else. While we may playfully reference the idea of men thinking about sex every six seconds, for a sex addict, this preoccupation goes beyond passing thoughts—they feel a constant need for sexual satisfaction and actively seek out frequent sexual encounters.

This manifests in:

1. Obsessive masturbation: In the absence of a willing partner, a sex addict seeks immediate stimulation, regardless of the timing.

2. Extra Marital Affairs: Individuals of the opposite sex become objects of desire to fulfill their constant need.

3. Pornography Addiction: Increased consumption desensitizes the addict, leading to a constant reliance on explicit content as part of daily life.

4. Online Sex: Whether through dating websites, cybersex, or chat rooms, sex addicts seek any available outlet.

5. One Night Stands/Unsafe Sex: In the grip of their addiction, sex addicts engage in multiple one-night stands without concern for safe practices.

While not all sex addicts become sex offenders, the addiction can sometimes escalate to involve illegal acts, including:

  • Exhibitionism
  • Prostitution (engaging with sex workers)
  • Voyeurism (without permission)
  • Molestation/Rape

All these behaviors can negatively impact the addict's life and those around them. Recognizing these signs is crucial for seeking timely help.

Available Assistance

Sex Addiction is considered a type of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and is thus addressed similarly. Treatment includes counseling, prescription of anti-depressant drugs like Prozac, support groups for sex addicts and their families, and a tailored 12-step program.